How Humor Helps Me To Cope

I've been in the humor business for a long time,doesn't have to be through the use of humor. We
and I never get tired of putting a smile onall put smiles on people's faces in our own unique
somebody's face, even if it's just for a fewway.Give a child a present at Christmas on his or
seconds. The sound of laughter is great. Being inher birthday, and watch that child open that gift.
the humor business started for my when I wasThe child's face lights up...a big smile on that child's
eleven years old, and I've been at it ever since.face! You get a warm feeling in your heart;
(knock on wood)We all know that laughter is themaybe a lump in your throat, and a couple of
best medicine, and it has been humor that hasglassy eyes...right? It's a warm feeling you have all
helped me to cope through me darkest days, andover, and it nothing do to with humor, etc. It has
there have been many! Humor has been therapyto do with giving!Mother's and father's know all too
for me, and I use it though thick and thin! Everywell, when a child brings a smile to their faces.
time I put a smile on somebody's face, it makesWhen that child says that first word; takes that
my day and gives me a lift. I know I have donefirst step; takes that first wobbly bike ride, and
something important to make someone happystarts school, etc. The parents get that smile and
and that's important to me.So, how does humorwarm feeling all over!Aside from the parents,
help me to cope? Example: I was in the hospitalschool teachers, more than anyone else, know
for about a week recently, and I was admitted tothe great satisfaction they get from seeing a
the intensive care unit, with bleeding in thestudent write that first sentence; do that first
stomach. I was conscious and the medical staffmath problem; and pass that first test. And, that's
were doing tests, etc. After arrived, a nursewhy I think school teachers do what they do...the
came into my room, carrying a clip-board, and shegratification of it all. They deal with the students
was going to ask me about 15 questions, so weeveryday...up close and personal. But, everyone
got started.Every time she would ask me aputs a smile on someone's face in their own way.
question, I would answer it with a silly, ridiculousFor example:Farmers and ranchers put food on
answer in an attempt to make her laugh, andour tables and that makes us happy, right? What
then I would follow up with a straight and seriouswould we do without the truckers and delivery
answer, etc. It was a little game I played withpeople who put that food on the table? Engineers
her, and she seemed to enjoy it. The questionswho make our lives more comfortable, and all of
and answers went something like this:Nurse: "Mr.our useful gadgets. All the people who make all
Aragon, do you smoke?"Jerry: "Only when I'm onthe goodies we enjoy...bake goods, ice cream, etc.
fire!"Nurse: "Mr. Aragon, do you drink?"Jerry: "DrinkThe medical people who keep us healthy. The
what? Carrot juice, milk...what? No, I don't drinktransportation people who get us from one place
anymore...I don't drink any less,either!"to another. And, what would we do without the
(Gotcha!)Nurse: "Mr. Aragon, are you allergic togarbage people who make us happy, when they
anything?"Jerry: "Only to a nosey nurse, whotake the garbage away, and keep insects from
keeps asking me dumb questions and won't letspreading disease. The construction people who
me get a little restwhile I'm on my deathbuilt our houses, apartments, and work places,
bed!"Nurse: "Mr. Aragon, do you have anyetc. Were you happy when you moved into that
pain?"Jerry: "Yes, I have a pain in the butt, andnew house? Retailers, service people, financial
guess who's causing it?"The nurse had a greatpeople who help us in so many different ways,
sense of humor, and we had a good time!and the list goes on and on!I worked for an
Anyway, the questions and answers wentengineering company for over ten years. And, if
something like that. I remember one questionthere is a piece of metal on the table; wire;
when I managed to have the nurse in "stitches,"epoxy; glue; wire mesh, it wasn't much by itself.
get it?" Stitches! Hospital...nurse...surgeon..HELLO! (IBut, put all these things together and now you
wonder why so many people think my humor ishave measuring devices that do research on:
so dry and off the wall) After the questions andearthquakes; volcanoes; hurricanes; lightning; flood
answers, the nurse disappeared for the rest ofcontrol; airline safety and on and on. And, when I
the day.Late in the afternoon, and before the dayworked in engineering, I always felt I was
shift was over, the nurse came back into mycontributing to make things better for humans,
room, and gave my a big hug! "What was THATanimals, and the environment!So, people in
for?" I asked. "That's for making me laugh thisAmerica share and give of themselves in every
morning and making my day," she said. The bigoccupation and profession. Everyone has
hug made my day, too! And, this is an examplesomething to share, give, and contribute to make
of how humor helps me to cope, and sometimesthings better in America. Everyone has a passion
under serious conditions like being in athat makes that person happy, and hopefully that
hospital.Nobody has cornered the market onpassion makes others happy as well.My passion
humor, not the most powerful or wealthy personjust happens to be humor, and I take it
on earth. All of us have made sombody laugh ateverywhere I go. Humor for me, is not an 8 to 5
one time or another, and we all know how greatjob...it's 24/7! I work all holidays and never take
it feels. The gratification from putting a smile onany time off...and, I love it!
someone's face cannot be measured. And, it